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MLB News & Notes (other than Cubs or Sox) - Andy - 04-09-2009

That really sucks. I'm sorry Matt.

MLB News & Notes (other than Cubs or Sox) - Coldneck - 04-09-2009

I'm so sorry for your loss Matt. This whole thing is horrible.

MLB News & Notes (other than Cubs or Sox) - Clapp - 04-09-2009

Thanks guys. It's awful but I'll pull through. A few people said I should write something about him, so I did. I threw it on my blog and I hope that doesn't upset anybody since our blog obviously isn't all that serious all the time, but I knew more people would read it this way than if I just threw up a facebook post or something. I'm obviously not looking for any hits to my site so I'll just post it here.

Remembering The Best Friend I Ever Had
<!--quoteo-->QUOTE <!--quotec-->I had just moved to Manhattan Beach, California as a four-year-old kid and had no friends yet. I sat around playing with my He-Man and Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles action figures by myself. A boy saw me playing in the yard with this stuff and approached me. He hated all these toys, he was all about sports, particularly baseball. We were nothing alike except for that we each lived in this neighborhood, each were the same age, and each were about to attend pre-school together.

However, soon we were hanging out every single day, and he began to get me into sports. I reluctantly decided to play tee ball and be on his team, then the same with basketball, and then soccer. All of a sudden I became a sports nut, just like him. We were playing catch everyday, shooting hoops, and then watching all of these sports on television all the time. We became really good at these sports, practicing more than anybody else around and in the hopes that one day we could be professional athletes like the guys we absolutely idolized. He wanted to be the next Gary Carter and I wanted to be the next Ryne Sandberg.

After five years there, my dad got a job that forced us to move to North Carolina. Henry and I were crushed. As devastated as I was to move to a new life, he was every bit as much as hurt to see me go.

He made sure our friendship would never end. He'd call me all the time, asking if I was making some new friends, how baseball and basketball were going, talk about my Cubs and his Mets, etc.

Three years later, we were forced to move because of my dad's job again, this time to Colorado. It became so difficult for me. I'd start to make new friends and then all of a sudden I have to start the process over again. New schools, new sports leagues, all of this stuff over and over.

But there's Henry again, calling me all the time and giving me his support. He was excited because we were only a few states away this time. So he of course came to visit a bunch. It still was hard on us though. I remember one time we took him to his gate at the airport and he didn't want to get on his flight. He burst out crying and wanted to stay here with me, but he of course had to go back home to California.

He always wanted to be there for my big moments. Twice I had a couple important baseball tournaments here in Colorado and we were looking for an extra player. I brought this up to Henry and sure enough he hops on a plane to come play on my team both times.

Then in 2003 I wanted to go to Chicago to watch the Cubs in the playoffs. Henry wasn't a Cubs fan, but he knew how much they meant to me, and he wanted to be there to hopefully celebrate with me. So we got on separate flights from Denver and Los Angeles to Chicago. As I went to meet him at the baggage claim, he came down the escalator chatting away with sports columnist Michael Holley who I recognized right away from ESPN's Around the Horn. Holley tells me how Henry spent much of the flight talking about all of MY writing. This was the perfect example of how Henry was. Not only was he confidently speaking to a famous person like it was nothing, he was telling this person all about his friend instead of himself.

I frequently got mad at myself for not attempting to hold up our friendship quite as much as Henry did. I've always been pretty shy and independent, whereas Henry was full of energy and the most outgoing person I've ever met in my life. He really took advantage of everyday of his life, a go-getter.

It's just not right that it had to end so soon. This morning I found out Angels' incredibly talented rookie pitcher Nick Adenhart was killed in a car crash just a few hours after he pitched an outstanding game last night. It's absolutely terrible and my thoughts go out to his family and friends, but I couldn't help but worry that my best friend was also in that car after I heard there were others killed. Henry frequently told me how he's good friends with Nick and tries to be at Nick's side for every pitching outing in Anaheim. Like he was with me, he wanted to be there for Nick's big moment and be there to celebrate. Well they did, and it's so sad they won't get to do it again.

Henry had just entered the world of being a sports agent and I have no doubt he was going to be one of the best. Full of confidence, a great personality, always smiling, and always trying to improve at what he was passionate about. There wasn't a more ideal job on the planet for him with his love of sports, his personality, and how much he supports the people around him. He'd do anything for his friends and in this case clients.

I had hoped one day we'd be living together or at least near each other just like old times. I'd do my sports writing(which I would've never been interested in if not for Henry), he'd do his job, then after work we'd grab a beer and watch a baseball game together. I can't even begin to explain how much it saddens me that we'll never get that chance, and it hurts so much more so that we'll never even get to hang out again.

There's so much more that I could say that I can't even think about right now as I write this with tears dripping down my face. I wouldn't be anything like I am today without Henry. He changed my life more than anybody. I've lost my best friend and the world's lost an unbelievably special young man that had such a bright future ahead. We'll miss you buddy, you have no idea.

R.I.P. Henry Pearson.<!--QuoteEnd--><!--QuoteEEnd-->

And really, I know this is the one place I can come to talk about this stuff and vent and what you guys have all been saying shows that. Thank you so much.

MLB News & Notes (other than Cubs or Sox) - vegascub - 04-09-2009

Aw man, Matt. I'm so sorry.

MLB News & Notes (other than Cubs or Sox) - Fella - 04-09-2009

For whats its worth, that might be the best piece I've ever seen you write Matt. Its easy to tell how much he meant to you.

MLB News & Notes (other than Cubs or Sox) - Clapp - 04-09-2009

Thanks guys.

MLB News & Notes (other than Cubs or Sox) - vegascub - 04-09-2009

Giants rookie reliever, Joe Martinez, took a laser beam off of the bat of Mike Cameron earlier tonight. He got drilled right on the side of the head and was bleeding all over himself. Really scary looking shit. Guess he's okay, but that ball was smoked.

MLB News & Notes (other than Cubs or Sox) - jeffy - 04-10-2009

Damn, this must be really tough for you Clapp. That was a beautiful write up, straight from the heart. You and his family are in my prayers tonight buddy.

MLB News & Notes (other than Cubs or Sox) - Brock - 04-10-2009

Sorry to hear about your friend Clapp. That's one hell of a heartfelt write-up too. Hang in there.

MLB News & Notes (other than Cubs or Sox) - ruby23 - 04-10-2009

Sorry to hear the news Clapp. Do what you gotta do, be where you gotta be, we'll be here waiting for you when you get back.

MLB News & Notes (other than Cubs or Sox) - rok - 04-10-2009

I can't begin to tell you how sad I am for you, your friend, and his family, Matt. Keep on writing and honing your talent, and one day it will all pay off for you. Your friend would have wanted it that way, and that can be your way of paying tribute to him. We'll keep you in mind while you're away, and hope better days are ahead for everyone. Take care, buddy.

MLB News & Notes (other than Cubs or Sox) - Gad - 04-10-2009

Already posted my thoughts on The Thigh but my heart goes out to you man. It's a horrible thing to lose a friend, especially one that had this kind of impact on you.

Stay strong and let us know if you need anything



MLB News & Notes (other than Cubs or Sox) - Quinn - 04-10-2009

Holy shit Clapp.

First off, I'm so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you and his family.

Second, I now realize who this is, he was your friend that was at the 03 NLCS game with you and I. Oh my gosh. He was a really great guy and I remember laughing at lot that night, up to the 8th inning of course.

And Clapp, you are a terrific writer.

MLB News & Notes (other than Cubs or Sox) - Jody - 04-10-2009

Words cannot express how sorry I am to hear of your loss Clapp. Hang in there buddy.

MLB News & Notes (other than Cubs or Sox) - Bricklayer - 04-10-2009

Wow Clapp, this is just mind numbingly tragic.

I think you did a wonderful job honoring your friend in that piece.